Sunday 30 September 2012

LOVE - THE ONLY STRESS RELIEVER - 2

Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.
- Marcus Aurelius -



               I AM READY TO BE HAPPY AND WELCOME JOY INTO MY LIFE

It is very easy to be happy and extremely difficult to be unhappy.

Three simple ways when applied and followed in your Life 
makes you happy all the time.
                                                                       
3 - Stress relieving ways to a happy Life :                        
:-)
    1. To Love everyone unconditionally makes you happy.

  To develop hate against one another, you think much about others than yourself.


 :-)  2.To perform your responsibility well and to stand on your commitments makes you happy.

  To skip your responsibilities and to your commitments will disable your physical, psychological and spiritual strength, that makes you unhappy.


 :-) 3. To compliment good behaviour, that is present in others will help your heart to liberate your self-expression, emphasize your elegant individuality, that makes you happy.

  To continuously complain on others suffocate oneself, which disables beauty of acceptance and disturbs the 'peace of mind,' that makes you unhappy.



“You need Power,
only when you want
to do something harmful
otherwise,
Love is enough to get everything done.”

― Charlie Chaplin


"Be Simple, grateful, humble, honest and kind.
Happiness is within you. So, keep it alive.

STRESS RELEIVING TIPS TO AVOID HATRED

🌿  Avoid grumbling / complaining 

🌿  Avoid arguments

🌿  Avoid judgement

🌿  Avoid self-righteous statements

🌿  Avoid unkind and reckless words.

Remember......✍️

1. Self-statements are always invalid.

2. The statements that others present as witness during our absence are meant to be the facts. 

LIFE IS PRECIOUS - TIME IS VALUABLE  🕊️

.

Hazel Shirley 




Saturday 29 September 2012

LOVE - THE ONLY STRESS RELIEVER -1

Nature always will teach us to perform our responsibilities well, if not calamities ....of heartache can come at any time to ruin our....'Peace Of Mind.'  ~ Hazel Shirley ~



You will be there...where your interest is.....
You will only watch ....for what your heart cares to cease....!!

Words though spoke to please others mind......
Your actions will reveal with what Soul you were made to bind.

No...One will begin to change.....
Unless, Someone would counsel to avoid revenge....!!

'Life is beautiful'.....so be thankful and do not complain.

Three tips to understand... Life concepts to believe Love as the only Stress reliever :

1.Physical needs are bought.., Emotional needs are felt from the heart...., Psychological needs are met when we design our own path.Therefore, always claim and aim at the constructive goal that will never fear any congested path.

2.A frustrated person or short-tempered person needs...silence, attention, and affection.Love builds the life.Never ever give up hope, that rejuvenates your willpower and energizes your spiritual strength. 

3.Stop criticizing others...instead, start counseling them with love to reveal facts present around them repeatedly with patience....so, that they can try to understand and follow....at least few concepts to make their life better.



With faith, even silence is understood.
Without trust, every word is misunderstood.
TRUST is the SOUL of a true Relationship.
LOVE is an ARCHANGEL of a real Friendship.

Hazel Shirley 




Sunday 23 September 2012

STRESS RELIEVING QUOTES FOR HAPPY LIFE

"Feelings are the deepest thoughts from within, that makes a person gentle and pure. If one can't help another's genuine thoughts to  breathe with respect and faith, then one should at least help another not to make their heart weep."

~ Hazel Shirley ~




Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind, feelings, and emotions. ~ Will Smith ~

It is simple to lead a happy life by avoiding  these 3 stress causing natures-

1.Ego     2.Jealousy    3.Greediness.  

Because -

1. Ego - does not allow you to greet or meet wonderful people around you.


2. Jealousy - does not accept or admire truth, though revealed.


3. Greediness - does not adjust or stay grateful to the blessed or beautiful things present in our life.


'When people love the materialistic world and admire pleasure than humanity, true nature of peace vanishes.  

 "Stress relief" would only be an occasional guest in our life.

Repent and replenish the joy of being alive.

Late regrets rotten's the ray of a life.




1. When you constantly find mistakes in others and feel irritated to condemn them. Just stop - take a minute to think over, 'may be it's you, who needs to change, to accept people around you, as they are.

2. When you use a word 'please' to request something and when you are least bothered by your humility, then it's time for you to cease it forever. Because, that someone doesn't deserve you, at least. 


3. Do not expect any attention or affection from a person, who doesn't know your worth. Empower your wisdom to emulate yourself to be unique. Being kind is an ultimate virtue of a noble spirit. (person)


4. A person who admired you would turn back to you again, if left in heartfelt pain or misunderstood or disagreed or disappointed  but would never ever return back or think of you when left, 'frustrated'.

5. Emotional needs, when not received suffocate and depress a person more than one's primary needs, that are essential to live a beautiful life. Affection and admiration are the best stress relievers.


6. A person, who keeps your secrets and never speaks badly about you in the public, but admires you is always precious. Love and respect them unconditionally.


7. If you love someone to express it wholeheartedly, you will receive it's response positively only when the recipient respects and trusts you divinely.


8. Conditions do not control a person as care do. Rules do not retain a person as love do. Restriction and rejection can never rebuild a relationship as acceptance and admiration do.


                           ~ Hazel Shirley ~




                                                            Anne Morrow Lindbergh 




'Beauty is truth, truth beauty,' - that is all ye know on earth, and all ye need to know.