Sunday 20 August 2023

STRESS RELIEF WITH A CARING MOTHER

 


Maa


गृहिणी

एक सृष्टि, जो अपने भगवान के स्मरण गाए,

एक प्रेरणा, जो प्रभु की प्रार्थना से अपने दिन शुरू करे..

एक गीत...
जो किसी को समझ में ना आये...,

एक पत्नी
जो किसी को अपनी आवाज से ना बुलाए।

एक माँ...
जो अपने दिल को बच्चे का घर बनाये।

एक आईना...

जो खुद की तारीफ करना भूल जाये।

एक आँचल...
जो इज्जत को अपनी माथे पर लगाए और
अपनी आत्मा से ले जाए...!


- Hazel Shirley - 

2014





NO PLACE LIKE HOME 🏡

It's impossible to define LOVE... 💗

Sometimes...., 💕

💌 It's a surprise menu cooked and served for your dear ones... 

💌 It's spending time together caring and sharing your responsibilities...

💌 It's a thought of transformation every new day with gratitude.....

💗 It's about the tender touch, caring heart, soft voice, mild music, refreshing gardening and nurturing precious kids.

Unspoken words with pleasant thoughts and  loving deeds are valuable indeed...  🎼 🌱 🌄


 ~ Hazel Shirley ~ 





Wednesday 16 August 2023

STRESS RELIEF WITH SELFLESSNESS


What is the meaning of selflessness?

When you're being selfless, you're thinking of other people before yourself. Selflessness is the opposite of selfishness. If you're selfless, you think less about yourself, and more about others. Selfless people are generous and kind.

Simple, honest, kind, patient people lead selfless life and stressless life. As they choose to remain grateful and thankful for the valuable family, friends and their society. They maintain silence and remain sincere during the situations, which are not in their control. The gratification excels by their faith in GOD.

🌿  We are happy, successful, healthy, progressive, generous, honest and alive because there are many unconditional contributions made by selfless genuine human beings on this earth by the grace of GOD.

Gratitude to ALMIGHTY for giving us all those kind and helpful people as HIS blessings. 
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What is a selfish person like?

People who are selfish often knowingly behave in ways that hurt other people so that they, themselves, can benefit. Self-centered people are overly focused on themselves; the Mirriam-Webster dictionary defines “self-centered” as preoccupied with oneself and one's affairs.

Such people around cause stress in the lives of their dear and nearones.

Traits of Selfish People:

Manipulating situations to their advantage.

Always considering what is in it for them.

Never being prepared to do favor unless they are getting something in return.

Not caring about others, or being unable to empathize.

Being conceited, and valuing one's own opinion and benefits over all others.

Not being willing to share.

Finding it hard to accept any kind of criticism.

Always believing their needs are most important.

Carelessness ruins responsibilities that causes immense stress.

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                         Self-Righteous


What Does It Mean to Be Self-Righteous?

Here are a few definitions of self-righteousness:

Merriam-Webster – “Convinced of one's own righteousness especially in contrast with the actions and beliefs of others: narrow-mindedly moralistic.”

Urban Dictionary – “A self-righteous person acts superior to his peers because he believes his moral standards are perfect. This ‘moral smugness’ is condescending by nature and is usually found offensive by others.”

Self-realization and Self-sanctification are extremely important to build a stress free life. Self-righteousness and self-statements often cause threat to one's own self.

Our lives testimony isn't based on our opinion. It's the family, friends and dearones, who are associated in our life, express their own thoughts regarding our behaviour and attitude.


Being grateful for every single breath we take knowingly and unknowingly is the greatest blessing to every living being.  Especially, the human being without whom this earth wouldn't have lost its beauty. As we live and still find the oxygen, stay grateful for  Thanksgiving, as it is the most melodious Praise, that we can give to GOD the author and the finisher of our lives. May the  Children around the world feel safe and serene as we look into their eyes.

Hazel Shirley 


Tuesday 15 August 2023

STRESS RELIEF WITH A SUCCESSFUL LIFE


A Man does not praise GOD

until he meets with his miracle. 

A Man does not value the Light, until it turns dark. 

A Man does not respect the time, until it runs away. 

A Man does not admire the beauty of the Soul, until a sincere heart turns astray. 

A Man does not know the worth of his mother, until he watches her empty chair. 

You are blessed with one Life, 

So, learn to respect worthy things - While, You are still alive. 


GOD doesn't give us problems and puzzles.

GOD gives us time, conscience, abilities and opportunities.

It's our choice to choose,

Either to construct a good conduct by the grace of GOD

 Or to destroy a character by the greedy thoughts.

Life is simple to add value.

Let's not make it complicative. 

It's a Soul Talk 


- Hazel Shirley -




Our LORD'S constructive path.
Build a person but don't break their heart.
Speak the truth but don't lie at all.
Forgive those, who hurt you but never forget to bless and pray for their transformation into a kind person to embrace the honest thoughts.