Friday 29 June 2012

STRESS RELIEF FROM CHILD ABUSE [From authors heart]


Visit the website for the needful and valuable information.
Courtesy: https://www.secondstep.org/child-protection

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This post is certainly not for the parents, who take care of their
children, well. This article is to strictly condemn the child abuse.

Most criminal act - where law is unable to act in time is manhandling
children at home by their most loving parents. It is from my 
heart to all those parents, who accept, that they have done 
this fault and would like to change their thoughts.

Just think about this to make your healthy child to relieve out 
of stress, that can ruin their mental ability and healthy body in
future.

The most delightful moment ever to a woman is to become a 
mother of a healthy child. Every family honours a mother and happiness doubles
with a new born. A Mother loves to bare her baby in her womb for 9 
months happily, even though, the body has to undergo certain pains. She 
admires to accept them to see her baby with her eyes...!!

What a delight !!!

When, it is time to raise, that beautiful innocent baby into a child,
why does not a mother take a few minutes to look into her child's
innocent, helpless eyes. When the children would give little pain to their mother or father by not listening to their words regarding few constructive 
concepts, irritation and frustration loads back with abusive words and anger bursts as short temper.

Why does a mother or a father or any elder manhandle or use abuse language?

Is it right to punish her / his own child aggressively, though repents later
immensely

The pain in a child's heart and fear in a child's mind 
will be under conflict. Though children mingle around with parents  happily as
they forgive and forget easily, children often loose their
self-confidence and self-expression. Innocent hearts always 
struggle and submit themselves for affection of their loving parents.

Think about this...

If it is injustice to manhandle a woman or a man, where law exist to punish as intelligent woman/man could report with her/his mental and physical strength to fight against the unsecured and unjustified act to punish the accuser, where could a child go to seek help when his/her own mother/father manhandles a child ?

Innocent child could do nothing, than to shout out for help in pain and fear, that most probably left unheard for a lifetime.

Father loves to take wonderful care of his child. He would love to 
spend his complete annual income, if necessary upon his child's 
future. A Child's career is the basic important aspect for him to live. 

What is a responsibility!!
It is worthy and wonderful to accept and correct our mistakes or faults which might ruin the lives of our innocent children.

If a father could spend so much of time to earn just to see a smile
on his child's face and to buy every thing according to his kid's taste.
Then, why does a father punish a child severely, when other things in 
his life makes him irritate? Vice-versa with the mother.

Why doesn't a short tempered parent make time to find out what
his child needs and how they feel during their absence. 
Abusive words, aggressive acts  and 
manhandling the child is the most uncivilized culture and it's action,
reflects on a child's physical and mental aspects that can ruin their innate abilities for a lifetime.

Parents can no longer create a good example to the management at
school. Therefore, educate yourself to develop immense interest and 
responsibility to give bright future to your own loving child with peace 
of mind and assurance to live a stress less happy life.

There are many laws, that are functioning successfully to relieve 
children from child abuse but unfortunately, it is unable to reach
at the door steps of a helpless child to stop the child abuse from their own loving
parents. 

Yes!! Parents do not have any right to punish their children.
You have right to counsel them repeatedly by teaching 
moral values and ethics with strong mind,  patience and loving heart.

Remember..., Parents are the role models for their own children.
Precious innocent children are your richest heritage. 
A healthy mindset development in the children is the biggest valuable asset to the society you are livingin.

Therefore, let's live with a clear conscious conscience to save, protect and to build a gentle genius generation with generous guidance and amicable self-control.


 Hazel Shirley 

 



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