STRESS RELIEF WITH MOST VALUABLE TIME -IN TEENAGE (Inspirational Poem)

" You never get a second chance
   To make a first impression."
                             --- By Mrs. Williams.
 Teenage is an intolerable age for mass confusion which is equally
impressive for immense attraction.It is quite a natural and healthy
phenomena though,it is peak time to build, one's character and 
personality for the rest of the future.Fatal attraction towards opposite
gender,engulf various thoughts to interact with each other.Falling in
love and keep failing in love are the known facts that can not be denied.
   Teenager....neither could share his feelings with parents nor can 
avoid friends despite of several warnings.This Poem is to inspire 
teenagers to choose career first, with strong constructive attitude 
with disciplined self-control  prospect, to reign in their respective career.
Because...beautiful career starts with in teenagers precious mind.


  TEENAGER-TIME IS MOST VALUABLE 


Sincerity enriches love to rule on,
Honesty  empowers affection to prolong.
Weakness of a person can tremble them down,
Darkness can conquer to make one an unpleasant clown....
Depression may occur in sensitive heart to mourn.


When deeds can explain... thoughts of one's heart,
why do you need to recall ...words of their past.
When numerous duties and attractions of this world....
       ............... surround them to live,
Why do you claim for love,living around their lives to survive!!!


Trust is something you assumed on their lives,
Hope has somehow made you to be nice.
When things did not remain the same as you thought,
when you realize precious time was lost.......


Just relax......!!Take a deep breath..!Now...begin to think....!!
To plan with your will power to succeed.........,
....with hard work ...each trial will be won by you....to be free.
...Walk in every path ...which your interest and ability do exist,
reach your target to make yourself proud and unique.

 Next post on.....'5 Stress relieving tips for successful youth-code'-career

STRESS RELIEF FROM CHILD ABUSE [From authors heart]

Visit the website for the needful and valuable information.

Courtesy: https://www.secondstep.org/child-protection

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This post is certainly not for the parents, who take care of their

children, well. This article is to strictly condemn the child abuse.

Most criminal act - where law is unable to act in time is manhandling

children at home by their most loving parents. It is from my 

heart to all those parents, who accept, that they have done 

this fault and would like to change their thoughts.

Just think about this to make your healthy child to relieve out 

of stress, that can ruin their mental ability and healthy body in

future.

The most delightful moment ever to a woman is to become a 

mother of a healthy child. Every family honours a mother and happiness doubles

with a new born. A Mother loves to bare her baby in her womb for 9 

months happily, even though, the body has to undergo certain pains. She 

admires to accept them to see her baby with her eyes...!!

What a delight !!!

When, it is time to raise, that beautiful innocent baby into a child,

why does not a mother take a few minutes to look into her child's

innocent, helpless eyes. When the children would give little pain to their mother or father by not listening to their words regarding few constructive 

concepts, irritation and frustration loads back with abusive words and anger bursts as short temper.

Why does a mother or a father or any elder manhandle or use abuse language?

Is it right to punish her / his own child aggressively, though repents later

immensely. 

The pain in a child's heart and fear in a child's mind 

will be under conflict. Though children mingle around with parents  happily as

they forgive and forget easily, children often loose their

self-confidence and self-expression. Innocent hearts always 

struggle and submit themselves for affection of their loving parents.

Think about this...

If it is injustice to manhandle a woman or a man, where law exist to punish as intelligent woman/man could report with her/his mental and physical strength to fight against the unsecured and unjustified act to punish the accuser, where could a child go to seek help when his/her own mother/father manhandles a child ?

Innocent child could do nothing, than to shout out for help in pain and fear, that most probably left unheard for a lifetime.

Father loves to take wonderful care of his child. He would love to 

spend his complete annual income, if necessary upon his child's 

future. A Child's career is the basic important aspect for him to live. 

What is a responsibility!!

It is worthy and wonderful to accept and correct our mistakes or faults which might ruin the lives of our innocent children.

If a father could spend so much of time to earn just to see a smile

on his child's face and to buy every thing according to his kid's taste.

Then, why does a father punish a child severely, when other things in 

his life makes him irritate? Vice-versa with the mother.

Why doesn't a short tempered parent make time to find out what

his child needs and how they feel during their absence. 

Abusive words, aggressive acts  and 

manhandling the child is the most uncivilized culture and it's action,

reflects on a child's physical and mental aspects that can ruin their innate abilities for a lifetime.

Parents can no longer create a good example to the management at

school. Therefore, educate yourself to develop immense interest and 

responsibility to give bright future to your own loving child with peace 

of mind and assurance to live a stress less happy life.

There are many laws, that are functioning successfully to relieve 

children from child abuse but unfortunately, it is unable to reach

at the door steps of a helpless child to stop the child abuse from their own loving

parents. 

Yes!! Parents do not have any right to punish their children.

You have right to counsel them repeatedly by teaching 

moral values and ethics with strong mind,  patience and loving heart.

Remember..., Parents are the role models for their own children.

Precious innocent children are your richest heritage. 

A healthy mindset development in the children is the biggest valuable asset to the society you are livingin.

Therefore, let's live with a clear conscious conscience to save, protect and to build a gentle genius generation with generous guidance and amicable self-control.

 Hazel Shirley 

 

5 STRESS RELIEVING TIPS TO PROTECT CHILDREN FROM CHILD ABUSE

"NEVER STOP CHILDREN FROM EXPRESSING THEIR FEARS, 

PROTECT NATURAL INNOCENCE,

HELP THEM GROW WITH HEALTH, WITHOUT TEARS."

Hazel Shirley

The family is both the fundamental unit of society as well as the root of culture. It ... is a perpetual source of encouragement, advocacy, assurance, and emotional refueling that empowers a child to venture with confidence into the greater world and to become all that he can be.

MARIANNE E. NEIFERT, Dr. Mom's Parenting Guide

1. Enlighten to identify the difference between CARE / CRAVE:
Children often hesitate to speak well in the absence of their
parents. Perpetrators do take advantage of this weakness.
It is the responsibility of the parents to make their children identify
the difference between love, care, concern, and affection from
tortures, cruelty, depression, pain in simple terms with the help 
of visual aids, especially books and current events related to 
this concept to bring the awareness to the children. It assures
them to live secure life with self-expression. Perpetrators
often get scared to come in reach towards talkative and 
interrogative children.

2. Observe the surroundings and help them to understand every situation :
It is always advisable to develop socialization. Interaction with
neighbours helps us to understand their mentalities and also to gain support. Certain Valuable suggestions can be given to the children for their self- protection, and guidance. To observe children's team while...play time and know about their behaviour at school is equally important.
Parents should always guide and attend when children browse 
in websites to counsel them to choose the correct concepts.

Unfortunately, it is very important to monitor situations around all
the time as one is unaware of the reality of the perpetrator for 
his/her form may come in numerous ways.....(Neighbour, tuition teacher,
driver, watch man, helper, relative, hostel warden....).
No one can assess the inner mask of that person. Therefore, parents advice
is always preferable and important to the children. This, in turn, is incorrect to address as..'spying'....as it is the responsibility of the parents to safely guard their children with secure life.

3. Encourage children to express their Fears :
Sometimes, children often speak certain facts or use words beyond their age. Do not condemn them. Listen to them with concern in the heart. It shows real worth of love. Encourage them to express what they have observed or how they have spent at school or with friends. The free expression often helps parents to identify the situations and circumstances, by which a parent can understand the problem around their child. Advisable concepts on secured living can be revealed to children with proper concern to help them understand and believe in good things.

Every loving parent is always advisable to ask their children these few questions...

1. How was your day?

2. Who are your friends?

3. How did you spend your class/games/ library hours?

4. Is everything okay and comfortable in all aspects today?

5. Is there anything you want to share with me that wasn't kind to you?

4. Educate Children about their Self- security :
Children should be educated with knowledge of concepts to protect their body. It is advisable to reveal the fact to condemn and avoid when anyone touches private parts or irritates with unpleasant grabbing or when they use unpleasing words, that would disturb or hurt sensitive hearts of the children. The beauty of the motherhood should take initiatives to educate the child with slender cautions.

5. Teach to call the helpline :
To condemn free expression of the child often creates a massive gap between parents and children. Clarity in understanding will be deficient, which is very dangerous at both the ends. The Knowledge of spreading child abuse by the perpetrators to parents or elders in-charge is always advisable to prevent danger and to protect the children. Therefore, teach children the concerned phone numbers (Parents, guardians, teachers) or mobile numbers by heart. There are many help centers to reach innocent helpless children.

http://www.childhelp.org/pages/about-abuse

“To be in your children's memories tomorrow,
You have to be in their lives today.”

― Barbara Johnson

~ HAZEL SHIRLEY ~

http://www.injurylawyers.com/firm-secures-6m-settlement-for-victims-of-child-sexual-abuse/

STRESS RELIEF FROM CHILD ABUSE - 1(Inspirational Poem)

 A bitter fact,horrifying punishment,irritating words,
  mental torture,the most unpleasing cruel behavior -" Child Abuse" -


It is the world's first fear factor to still remain as failure, to establish
future generation as active models,strong minds,intelligent motivators
with aspiring minds to learn progressive methods.


Many helping centers and most powerful acts in law are unable to
prevent these cruel facts and unaware to protect innocent children,
as the immorality of criminal minds are at work, all the time with an 
unknown mask to reveal the truth.Therefore,it is the responsibility 
of the parents to protect their children and to prevent every act,that
ruins the healthy atmosphere of the child's growth.
Society,social organisations and leaders should condemn, as well 
help to lead the rights of the child to be successfully met.

INNOCENT HEARTS


Innocent hearts with sensitive thoughts,
sweet voices with pleasant looks.....
....tender age with slender mind....
...in concerning ways....find no doubt.


 On soft cheeks let their smile freeze,
let no fear bring out their sober tears.....!
Parents protect children as they are yours
...they are here to make us happy....
....... and to bring life cheers.


They are worthy to receive showers of blessings....
Let peace and happiness reign in all their hours.....
Almighty!Protect them with all your powers.


As sweet children with tender hands trust parents.... arms,
Listen... to their genuine wishes..as they convey
....these to their loving parents....


"Beloved Parents!You love us so deep...
our tender lives in your hands we keep...
criminal minds are chasing us to weep...
Protect us from every evil that peep.....
Help us! to grow progressively to reap....
provide us security to live happily and to leap...
...let us rest in your arms to take a pleasant sleep."
'We trust and love you...... Beloved Parents...!'
'You are our hope to live and succeed.'

Precious innocent hearts bless and protect them

http://www.childsafe-international.org/ChildAbuse.asp

http://www.findcounseling.com/journal/child-abuse/child-abuse-laws.html

Next post-on......

"5 stress relieving tips to protect children from child abuse."

STRESS RELIEF FROM DRUG ADDICTION (Inspirational Poem)

International day against drug abuse and illicit trafficking - 26, June.

"Our efforts to promote development and fight drugs and crime will be more effective if they are rooted in partnerships with the young, civil society, governments and the international community. Working together, we can alleviate the suffering of millions and break the hold of drugs and crime on countries, communities, and families."

Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon

'We should progress......from:
Talkers............ .to......Doers
Doers................to......Performers
Performers.......to .....Achievers
Achievers.........to......Trend Setters
Trend setters....to.......Reformers.'

            

Stress relief from drug addiction
EDUCATE AND EMPOWER YOUR WILL POWER

A life is born and wish is claimed,
dreams that hope to raise each day.
Spirit and strength lay the path to stay....
...a peaceful life to shine and smile in every way.

Look at the mountains up there..!
they look so..steep and high....
..as if they touch the Sky.
Though they are huge and strong...
..neither can reach the Sky nor can prolong....
Yet, they help to stop the windy storm...
....to make life in this world to long....!!

Hey!  my friend...! that wander out of pain and grief...
in search of addicted drugs you creep....!
Look ! at the people who inspired us too deeply,
though they lived their life in brief,
yet......they accomplished their will to reap.

'Lance Arms Strong -the cycle Champion of France',
His bravery is wonderful to glance.
'Mark Inglis- the mountaineer',
A man of strong attitude led adventure without fear.
'Natalie du toit - dear lady to be a great portrait',
was swimming Champion of South Africa.....
..People admired her and said Eureka....!!

Great people who lived around,
though challenged physically, yet were bound......
...to live an inspirational life that would sound...
...as if the powerful dedicated song is found.

Alas!!!
Curiosity aroused in evil minds...
...to spread darkness around to keep cash in bands....
..to make money with lives alive....
....only by ruining one's own species, that love to survive.

Educate, empower, counsel to be wise,
break away the chains of lies.
Take an Oath at this precious hour....
....not to cast away the spirit of power.....
Spread the words that you care..!!
to all those friends around drugs.....please be aware!

"Charus - would ruin your charms,
Stay away from them, as it harms.
Cocaine - would damage mind cells,
it....would lead you away from Holy bells.
Heroin - would hinder complete health,
it...would ruin away your total wealth."
Robbery, cheating, chasing is difficult to sail,
Ruined one would stay in prison with out a bail.

Only one life my precious friend!!
live an intelligent life to be strong in mind.
Help yourself with wisdom to mend,
...let beautiful things reign in your life to blend...
...with successful path until the end. 

~ Hazel Shirley ~

"Change is something that happens from your heart..with in..,
Live life.....or struggle to survive..!!! What is your wise choice..!!!!
You alone can decide...
just take/make time to assume the beauty 
of being alive..!" 

~ Hazel Shirley ~

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/drug_substance_abuse_addiction_signs_effects_treatment.htm

Drug Abuse & Addiction

Signs, Symptoms, and Help for Drug Problems and Substance Abuse

http://www.un.org/en/events/drugabuseday/

http://signs-of-drug-addiction.org/

7 STRESS RELIEVING TIPS TO WIN YOUR BOSS' HEART

We are not here to curse the darkness,but to light the candle
 that can guide us through the darkness to safe and 
 sane future. - John Kennedy -

  7 Stress relieving tips to win Boss' Heart :

1.Perfect dress code with smiling face :
To dress in formals and to maintain pleasing combination in dress 
code with necessary accessories to look decent and elegant are
advisable.Pleasant smile of-course is a precious ornament to win
anyone's heart.It reflects on one's self-confidence and self-satisfaction,
that in turn makes your boss remember your uniqueness.

2.Punctuality and regularity :These two concepts of the individual 

empowers and provides appreciable credibility at office and in the society.Therefore,oblige them in your life to become a leader as well trust worthy individual.It elites delight in life and builds career in most manageable  way.

3.Efficiency at work with dedication :
It is the aspect that elevate one's ability,capability and sincerity.
Intelligence and innate abilities emphasizes one's efficiency.
Management often focus their interest on them as well entrust
maximum responsibilities upon them.Self-dedication towards
the concerned project often wins a crown of appreciation in
efficiency.

4.Authentic,creative and pleasing presentation :
These are the aspects which enables the team and co-workers
to get attracted towards the personality.They follow the inspiring
aspects that empower their living in learning skills.Authentic voice
with pleasing and creative presentation are the most advisable
and appreciable charming assets.

5.Establishment of trust in the team :
Trust is something that is created among the people around by
one's perfection in their individuality and personality.
Character-building and capability at work enables one to win 
trust in the team.

6.Responsible extension of helping nature :
Genius is the one who would admire to share his knowledge
with his team members,considering the benefit in their company.
Responsibility is the leadership quality that reflects in solving the
considerable doubts of his/her respectable team.Helping nature
and friendship with the team enrolls -'a spirit of great-fullness 
and thank-fullness for the co-operation and understanding 
nature extended.Unity at work,serves as a strong shield to win
every battle in this competitive world.

7.Successful completion of the project :
'As a general rule,the most successful man in life is the man 
who has the best information.' -Benjamin Disraeli-
It is one's interest,hard work,ability that makes one to be 
successful.Research and study on a required concept to 
brighten up the living of mankind is always honorable.The
above mentioned 6 valuable tips along with research and 
awareness would serve as key concepts to the successful 
completion of the project.

 "Nothing in life is to be feared.It is only to be understood."
                                         -Marie Curie-