STRESS RELIEF BY UNDERSTANDING YOUR CHILDREN'S EMOTIONS

RESPECT EMOTIONS OF YOUR CHILDREN.

“The environment must be rich in motives which lend interest to activity

  and invite the child to conduct his own experiences.” 

                                                            by -Maria Montessori-

Yes,children are meant to be blessed to born in this
world as blessed desire to parents.

“When dealing with children there is
  greater need for observing than of probing”-

by -Maria montessori-

According to  Dr.G.Aruna  Mohan  in her book Psychological Foundations of Education,It is significant that the same part of our brain that controls emotions also controls health,and equally controls emotions and memory.When something involves strong emotions,it is usually very well remembered.
     It also means enjoyment,role-playing,collaboration and games are important elements in learning because they involve positive emotions.
                  When the brain is in a stage of positive emotional arousal,researchers note that opiate like "pleasure chemicals" called endorphins are released.This, in turn triggers an increased flow of a powerful neurotransmitter called acetylcholine.This is important because nuerotransmitters are the lubricants that allow connections to be made between brain cells.In simple terms,a brain enjoying itself functions more efficiently.
So,there is a scientific basis for using art,drama, colour,emotion,social learning and even games as educational tools for children.
                           Researches suggest the following about negative emotions.Thalamus acts as a sort of switchboard between our senses and our cortex., analyzing incoming information for emotional significance.If there is stress or fear,the information may not be fully available to the neocortex.

LOVE,AFFECTION,CARE,CONCERN AND LOYALTY AS
POSITIVE EMOTIONAL BUILDERS:

All the above mentioned feelings are entangled in one word called precious time towards children.
Yes, in today's busy lifestyle the work load is hectic to bare or to explain.It is always important to parent to take responsible time towards children.

 1.Pleasant smile and tender touch of a parent or a care taker itself creates self-confidence and gives protective shield to the child.

2.Child likes to be observed and advised in all aspects.

3.Soft voice mobilizes affection and encouragement in their activities.

4.Playing interesting games helps to grow with complete health.

5.Socialization helps to root out fear and shyness in children.

6.Living with social group develops language and enables child to express his views and interests with confidence.

7.A good listener enables the child to grow with self-respect and thankfulness in future.

“It is true that we cannot make a genius. We can only give to teach child the chance to fulfill his potential possibilities"
                                                                   by -Maria montessori-

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